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Old Sat May 10, 2014, 02:41 PM
MaryS MaryS is offline
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It's ok to cry

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Hello all,
This is my first time I post in this forum, and please be patient and understand my problem. For me MDS is very new, never heard about before, and just 3 short months ago I never taught I will ever hear this word. Last year in November I had a blood test as a result of a annual check up, and all the tests come back positive. All but the white blood cell count which for the last year and a half was slightly below normal. My doctor had me re-checked every 3 months to keep an aye on this. The same the specialist my Hematologist who had the same wait and see attitude. But in my next blood test in January all the results where bellow normal. Immediately after this the doctor had me do a bone marrow biopsy and the result: I was diagnosed with MDS. The specialist's interpretation was very optimistic. According to him there isn't any cancer, and he send me home
to wait and have another test 3 months later. Today I had the results, and they are even lower then the January test.
01/17/14 05/02/14
white blood cell count 2.9 2.7
red " " 4.40 4.11
hemoglobin 12.6 11.7
hematocrit 37.3 34.5
platelet count 128 155
absolute neutroph. 1344 1431
This is all I know, for the last 3 months I read all I can in this forum and try to put some sense in everything. I do not understand much, probably I am to
scared and confused to make sense of anything, but I am a Christian and pray to my savior and see what my doctor will say next Tuesday. What do you guys think? I'll add to this after my visit with the specialist.
Thanks


I am sorry that you find yourself in this situation. It is pretty scary isn't it?
It took my father a couple of months to completely understand this situation.
MDS is very confusing. It will take some time to adjust.
They are making good progress in this disease. There are Some good medications out there and clinical trials.
In the beginning my dad decided to wait and watch and take Procrit shots. Procrit stimulates the production of RBC. This worked for a few months, I have read that others have gone longer. Some people don't want to wait and watch and want to start the Medicine (chemo)right away. It is what you feel is right for you.
On this site, you can learn what other people have done , and what was successful for them and what wasn't successful for them. Like you will see Everyone's situation is not the same, everyone's blood counts do different things at different times. A medicine that doesn't work for one doesn't mean that it won't work for you and vice versa. There are options- so that is good.
You will become a pro with your blood counts .
My dad is from New Orleans but has travelled to Houston for treatment.
He is getting good care here.
There is lots of information , read and understand it and ask question.
You are not alone! Many people stand with you. There are many positive stories.
Focus on that.
Prayer for you
Mary Schmitz
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Mary, daughter / caregiver of Bob age 77; on Oct 1 2013 dx with MDS/MPN overlap +Trisomy. Jak2 at d< 5 blast. , and on March 1 2014 Dx with AITL non Hodgkin's Lymphoma.
Tx: decitabine/prednisone/Jakafi?
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