When my doctor first mentioned the possible need of a transplant in the future, I asked my brother if he’d be tested for compatibility if necessary. He said no, straight way without even hesitating. He is phobic about hospitals, illness, death, dying and ageing. There was no way he’d even consider it. It is what it is. It’s his right to refuse...I can’t say that I wasn’t disappointed and hurt but I have accepted his decision and our relationship is still good.
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