Sounds like you had a few bumps but things looking up. the whole process is so different for everyone. I kick myself for not reading up on it more when my husband did his. We should be celebrating his first "birthday" on November 24, but instead we are looking at having to do the whole thing all over again. they don't really talk much about the odds of losing the graft all together.
Carrie, wife to Mike (52). diagnosed with non hodgkins lymphoma 10 years ago, and has been fighting one thing or another ever since. auto-sct in 2008, developed treatment related MDS, allo 11/24/2-2014 with 10/10 match from brother. as of September 2015 only 4% donor cells. MDS status now at 8% blasts.