Thank you for giving some more insight. I can relate on the nerves with the situation. I think this is probably a normal reaction and some react more than others (being over the top) I guess you can't be too careful and to be expected.
There are days I am a little more at ease than others. I try to handle as much as I can to lessen his burden. There is so much that has to be accomplished beforehand, that it gets overwhelming. I know this is normal getting prepared and it will get better and keep on saying there is a light at the end of the