She was smart enough to know, of course being my only sibling we keep in close contact and talk quite a bit, so I guess in a way I did tell her. But I never asked for her help, she just did whatever she could, including contacting family and friends. I've decided that every caretaker needs a manager, as the caretaker needs to focus on the patient ... that is what my sister said.
So try and take care of yourself and find that one person who can mobilize others
My best wishes for your husband's recovery, we just came home yesterday from induction therapy - all OK so far.
Kind wishes,
Debbie