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Old Sun Sep 19, 2010, 03:03 AM
Neil Cuadra Neil Cuadra is offline
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Originally Posted by Flamingo Jim View Post
I definitely have people that can take me for appointments, that is not a problem. I was more wondering how much I can do for myself in my house...people are worried I need someone around all the time. From what I understand from talking to some people who have gone thru process is that I will be able to get around my house, cook some simple things, etc while my caregiver is out working.
You may be rather tired, so it's not as easy as you might think to manage everything yourself. The key is to do what's necessary (like getting proper food and rest) and not worry about things that can wait. If the house is messy, so be it.

If friends offer to help, take them up on their offer and let them help. Let them cook for you or bring you meals, for example. That's what we did and it helped, and they felt better that they could do something for us.
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