Shroob, I am so sorry that the treatment course has made a turn for the worse like this. What a hassle!
I understand the need to place cancer patients first. But I also feel that leaves patients with other diseases like Aplastic Anemia kind of hung out to dry. Sometimes I get the same sort of sense from my mother's hematologist office.
Hopefully you can find some answers soon. I would try giving Dr. Young's office a call, from what I remember Matthew42 had gotten a better response from them this way.
I also found that the Cleveland Clinic will do a Virtual Second Opinion:
https://my.clevelandclinic.org/depar...s#overview-tab
It's a bit pricey, but it also looks like if you call them or have your doctor refer you to their office, they have the option for virtual visits as well. Dr. Maciejewski is supposed to be another of the world's leading experts in AA.