I am getting antsy with my father's transplant coordinator for his stem cell transplant. There has been definite progress in one month since we have been on the donor registry; however, sometimes we call for updates and we hear "no updates today - the systems down" or "oh, no updates today, I was out sick for two days and am playing catch up." I am frustrated because this sounds like excuses to me. Has anyone had the same frustration? Should this be a red flag or am I being overlly sensitive? I keep hearing the Dr.'s say that timing is of essence to find a donor for my father but when we hear excuses on the donor updates it freaks me out! Any thoughts?