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Janire,
It's worth pointing out is that your feelings are normal. Most of us worry, second-guess our tentative decisions, or have trouble making up our minds in the first place. When you have such a big decision to make about your life, you can't rely on "the obvious" because it's not obvious at all. That's why we all try to get facts to help us make rational choices.
You don't have to make choices like this alone. You can talk to the doctor, get a recommendation, then get a second opinion from another doctor. (My wife and I did that, and then we got a third opinion from a third doctor when we were still on the fence.) And be sure to talk to family and friends around you too. They will listen to you and nobody will try to help you more than the people you are closest to.
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